In a short while, we will celebrate the coming of Christ, the birth of the Messiah, and Advent, our time of waiting and expectancy, will be over. As I struggled with what to write about for this blog post, there was one thing I knew for sure: you, dear reader, do not need to read one more blog post making you feel guilty about  how chaotic and unfocused you are during this season.  Truth is, I am as busy as any of you and we are all just trying to manage.  Between three children, writing, video ...